Here is the hard part. The best way I think to describe myself is by telling you what Family and freinds say. They say that I have a big heart. (sometimes too big) They say that I am sweet and funny, honest and kind, loving and compassionate. They say that I am always the optimist. I always look for the good in people. They say that I am a bit of a goof-ball sometimes with my silly sense of humor. They say that I make the BEST CHEESE CAKE in the world! They say that I expect people to always do the right thing becuase I always do. They say that I always treat other as I would want to be treated. They say that I have so much love to give and that the right person will come along someday. . .which is why I am here - Why we are all here. I am looking for my better half. My best friend and lover. Someone who finishes my sentences. Someone who will always be there no matter what - because I always will. Someone who does not have to say anything but can look at me from across a room and with that one look makes me feel that I am loved. We all are here for many reasons. We all have an agenda. We all have a story of some kind. I am an open book. As I said - I am here because I want to feel those butterflies in my belly when you walk into a room. I say this with honesty and sincerity. . . If you are looking for a pen pal, a fling or just to entertain yourself - Please do not contact me. Life is a gift and time is precious and should not be wasted on games that most people on these sites play. For those of you who have read my profile and are interested in contacting me - I thank you for taking the time to read my profile and I look forward to hearing from you. Best of luck to all in their search.