"I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts.” --John Locke
That being as it is, it is hard to judge one's character simply based on the words that have been composed by that person for the purpose of self-promotion. I portray myself exactly as I am, as it does not serve me well to misrepresent. Satya means "truth" in Sanskrit and this is what I seek. I know myself extremely well, and I also know what I want, and the direction I choose to head in. I would like a partner that has lived a full life in many facets and appreciates the joys that life has to offer.
Me: I am passionate about what I do for a living and I make time to engage in activities that bring me happiness. I have three amazing children that bring immeasurable joy to my life. My friends and family play an integral role in my life, as well, and I value those connections dearly. I am a very healthy person both physically and emotionally. I eat well, stay fit, and love to be outdoors. I am focused, goal oriented, and stable in all regards. I am a warm and affectionate woman and I believe that communication is the key to a healthy relationship.
You: My ideal mate most likely has been married and/or has a child of his own. I have found that men who do not possess at least one of these traits are often too selfish or unstable to understand the lifestyle of a woman who has a career and children. Of course, there are always outliers, so if you are one, please feel free to prove me incorrect. Since a man who enjoys what he does for a living is more likely to be a happy person, this is always a plus. I am fit and active and I want the same in a partner. Also, a good sense of humor and intelligence is a must. Although I was raised to avoid talking about money, it goes without saying that financial stability is a must for me.
Us: At the end of the day, I seek someone who will see and appreciate me for who I am, and not try to change me. I will offer the same. I think it is simpler than many make it out to be. I want someone that I enjoy being with and who loves to have a similar kind of fun with me, who I respect on multiple levels, and who I share similar life goals with. I do not wish to control anyone, and I certainly don't wish for anyone to try and control me. I also don't mesh well with men who are jealous, have anger issues, or are stalker-ish. Kinda scary...
Please note that while I am not one to take myself too seriously, my time is extremely valuable and I choose not to waste it. I have been through my dating stages as they were appropriate in my life and serial dating is not my bag, baby. Thanks!
