I’ve never “written” what composes my ideal match but after reading a few profiles, I decided to update mine. I pulled out my note pad and this is what I came with, an example.
My parents have been married for 39 years and the love between them is amazing. My dad treats my mom like no other person in his life; she has a permanent position in his heart. When they see each other after being apart for a short or long while, the atmosphere around them is a sense of peace; they complete each other.
This may be an odd statement but my dad is the perfect man, the type of man I’m looking for. He is the “model” or “mole” of my ideal match
It’s important that you understand that I am a “daddy’s girl” and I proudly display my title. The love I feel from my dad is calming (he rocked me to sleep until I was too big to fit in his lab) and in his arms I feel like his princess (my nickname). He protects me, provides for me, loves me, teaches me, cheers for me, bleeds/cries for me and with me, encourages me, guides and follows me, adores me but also correct me. In my dad’s arms I feel love, I feel safe, and I feel secure, which are three traits that every women wants and needs rather she admits it or not.
Is that weird? O well, it’s the truth and how I feel, what I want.
This guy, whoever he may be, will make me feel similar to the way I feel around my dad and once you add the physical attraction I’m confident we will match. I did leave out a few things, most importantly spiritual background is a requirement; he must have a desire to grow in that department.
I think that sums it up more or less, or at least give a great rough draft of my match.
Now to describe myself.
I’m a caring and dedicated person, I don’t jump ship often; will hang in there as long as possible with you. I believe God put me here to do great things and my daily task is to be a caring person.
I consider myself intelligent and focused but not conceded. I want to learn new things and constantly better myself; I never want to get in a situation or be surrounded by others who are stagnant, not wanting to elevate to the next level. Not saying I won’t ever be satisfied because I’m sure I will be (and I am), but I always want to learn something new.
I can be silly at times, which gives me time to breath deeper and look from a different view, but I don’t put up with foolishness.
My schedule/life is busy but I make time for things that I want and need. I’m a physical therapist assistant part time, graduate student part time and a teaching assistant at a university part time so yes I’m busy and live by my daily planner but my planner is not full.
If you didn’t catch it before I’m very close to my parents/family and again proud of that badge. I am who I am today because of their love and support. I love family time just hanging out or conversations over the phone.
I don’t feel “rooted” but kind of just floating in the breeze waiting on my next path to reveal to me.
Finding my ideal match equal my happiness and the love that would come from me, radiate from me (because I am loved) would over take my match, drowning him in more than imagined. I know my "self worth" and I know the love that I have to offer my ideal match is that mind blowing, breath taking, jaw dropping, affectionate type of love.
that type of love only comes out of me when I'm loved equally the same....then let the love games begin, let's see who can please the other the best, who takes the gold star for the day!
finding love is a serious task and some are blessed to find it early and evolve with it, others, the journey continues longer than desired.
So finding true love is my reason for being on a dating site ( also don't do club scene especially not to look for love), I'm broadening my reach like professor X and cerebro.
Enough said I think.
If you enjoyed reading my profile and looking for friend first, email me back and let’s just see what happens