There's an ole saying... or as Mick Jagger put it "you can't always get what you want, but you can try" ! ;) I'm a very strong willed, healthy athletic gal looking for a loving committed relationship with a similar type....you are a jack of all trades, a little blue collar with a dash of geek. Extra points if you play an instrument, and or are into physical fitness of any kind. I grew up swimming in Monterey Bay, so love being close to the ocean. I've been around world, love to travel, haven't lately but willing. The simplest things can also be fun, a walk, coffee, movie, bike ride. Yes, I will respond if you email me. You should become a member!