I really don't know what to put in here. I'm a former active duty Marine, and I'm looking for something real. I don't want just a hook up, I want a relationship that could possibly turn into a lifelong escapade. I want kids, and I want love. I have a rule I follow for sex as well. I won't have sex with someone until we can make love with just a kiss.
Let me add a few things as well. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad about this if it fits them but I'm not interested in anyone who has kids already, or who has been divorced. The divorced part is a much bigger issue to me. I believe that marriage should be final. I realize that in our society that's not the way it is anymore, but that doesn't mean I can't hold myself to a higher standard. When I get married, I refuse to let it just end. I will have made a vow to the higher power, to myself, and to my wife, to love her forever and be with her forever. I do not believe in until death do us part. Marriage to me is eternal. If whomever I marry dies, then she is in the afterlife waiting for me. Because of my strong convictions about these vows, if whomever I marry decides they want a divorce and there is nothing I can do to change her mind, I will give her what she wants in an effort to make her happy, but I will not continue playing the dating game. I will have found my soulmate so there is no reason to continue searching. If someone has been divorced though, to me, that's saying they are a part of the majority that does not believe marriage is forever, and they have no problem tossing in the towel and giving up. I am looking for someone who does not give up when things get tough, but rather fights to make it work, as I would be doing as well. I know those who are divorced may be upset with my opinions on this, but I'm sorry, it's just how I feel. Hopefully this will also give a little insight to those who have never been married as to what I am looking for as well. If you don't believe that marriage is forever, if you believe it is just until you find something better, then you're not who I'm interested in either. For those who do believe marriage is eternal though, please e-mail me. It's quite difficult these days to find someone who is like minded about this subject. Ciao ciao, and hope to hear from you soon.