I am first and foremost very family oriented. Having alone time is also important to adult things like dining out, moonlight bowling or skating, a jazz club and things of that sort. I am romantic and affectionate and would give that to someone who wants and reciprocates the same....I'm looking for someone with integrity and has a nature of being honest (can be explained if needed). I want him to be able reach me on a spiritual and mental level...I want him to know how to take of a woman's heart and her emotions...He treats people like he wants to be treated and he has good morals and values and vision about where is going and wants to be...the qualities I have requested are those that I have in myself...in essence I'm looking for someone who reflects me....someone I can uplift and can be uplifting. Becoming friends is very important to me because even if it doesn't go any further, at least I have been blessed with a friend.