The woman who appeals to a man's vanity may stimulate him, the woman who appeals to his heart may attract him, but it is the woman who appeals to his imagination that gets him.
Hi I'm Steph... Thanks for stopping by- I, apparently, am a glutton for punishment. I don't feel like Match is 'natural' and it often promotes the worst in people- I would love to meet someone the 'old fashioned' way...but in today's world that seems to be unusual. I work a lot- I love my job. I am a travel agent and I am very passionate about my work. I raise 4 great kids on my own- after 15 years in a marriage that just didn't work- unfortunately, their dad doesn't have much to do with them anymore. Most of my friends are married...the few that aren't are bitter and negative about the dating scene- I know I don't want to be like that. So what is a gal to do?
I'm attracted to a guy whos looks and interests are different then mine- so just short of hanging out at Cabelas or the weight room at the gym- meeting that special someone seems to be a challenge.
I can go on about what I would like in a partner- but I don't think a real 'match' can be summed up in a wish list. Also describing myself seems silly. All in the eye of the beholder...right?
I'll just sum it up in terms that I would consider deal breakers myself. I have a great career, so I'm stable financially. By this- I mean my bills are paid, and I live with in my means. I do live on my own..just me and the kids...I have never been in trouble with...well...anything. (I have to pass a 10 year background check for my type of work)...my kids are the most important thing in my life- I will not compromise their safety or well being for anything. I have a good relationship with my folks, and my brothers...I know right from wrong and would rather handle things straight on and honestly. I live with the philosophy of 'cause no harm'...I take my health of body and spirit seriously- physical activity, eating well and personal growth are a part of my everyday lifestyle. I have an adventurous spirit and love learning, seeing, and discovering new things and points of view.
Other then that- I guess you will have to find out on your own ;)
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