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"LEATHER & LACE" - Tomboy seeks nice guy with an "edge." Are you sweet enough for my lace, but edgy enough for my leather?

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41 year old woman
Lynnfield, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking:
men 34-46
Within:
200 Miles of Lancaster, Massachusetts, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME:

If you want a vapid, perky girly-girl, subservient & passive, who’ll always agree w/you, not challenge you in any way, mindlessly caters to your every need & will be an enabler to your bad behavior - look elsewhere. However, if you want a shrewd, witty, intelligent partner you can converse with on many topics, who'll challenge you, who's feisty & independent, who’ll call you out on your BS & not be a doormat - keep reading.

I'M THE "COOL CHICK" WHO HANGS w/THE GUYS. But don't worry - none of the guys get to take me home.

I’M A TOMBOY. I prefer little to no makeup, jeans/sneakers over dress/heels, stick shift over automatic, nachos over caviar, Pats game in mancave over a gala at the Ritz. I even own a toolbelt. But I can “class it up” & hold my own when needed :) I’ve been described as “white collar intelligence, blue collar personality.”

I'M FRUGAL. Do you hate when women spend a fortune on shoes & purses? ME TOO!! I eschew jewelry & designer labels, & I’m a bloodhound when it comes to sniffing out bargains. And I hate malls!

POSSESSIONS & MONEY DON'T IMPRESS ME. I look at ACTIONS - THATS what reveals true character. Possessions can’t compensate for bad behavior. Rich or poor, a jerk’s still a jerk.

I LOVE ROCK: Bon Jovi, Def Leppard, Whitesnake, Journey, Foreigner, REO, Pat Benatar, Heart, Bryan Adams, ZZTop, Eagles, 38 Special, Van Halen, AC/DC, Joan Jett & more. Ironically I've never lived a "rocker lifestyle.” Always been smoke-drug-alcohol free. Good thing, otherwise I'd look like Keith Richards by now!

SOME FAV THINGS: music, massages, reading, writing, organic & "green" products, exercising, real estate, photography, Macs, Trader Joes, Whole Foods, HGTV & Howard Stern!

I'M VERY REAL, RAW, HONEST & "ANTI BS" - no games here. With me, what you see is what you get.

Watching my dad deteriorate over 14 yrs from 2 strokes has been hardest, most life-changing thing I’ve ever endured.

I CAN BE CONTROLLING, but it’s a necessity since I'm caring for my parents. Plus I’m self-employed so I answer to no one. I've never had to "share the cockpit" w/anyone, so that'll be a learning curve. But the right man will be my "co-pilot" as we navigate thru this crazy life together.

I HAVE A TWISTED SENSE OF HUMOR & a goofy, mischievous side, but it's been stifled since I've been handling serious issues - overseeing Dad’s health care, managing real estate, resolving legal issues, etc. Always putting out fires.

I'M A HOMEBODY. Content curled up at home. Hate bar/club scene. No quality people there.

I'M SELECTIVE w/whom I allow in my life. I value quality over quantity.



MY TAKE ON RELATIONSHIPS: despite my lack of experience, I have strong beliefs based on the many train wrecks I've witnessed. In addition to honesty, trust & open communication, which are automatic prerequisites, I feel the 3 most important things missing in most relationships (and what leads to their ultimate demise) are: respect, consideration & gratitude.

If mutual respect is missing, you're doomed.

Consideration for the other person's needs & feelings is a must. Each partner has to be willing to sacrifice for the good of the relationship.

And then there's gratitude. When couples take each other for granted, it leads to feelings of neglect & resentment. That festers & creates emotional distance, then it's all downhill from there.



MY IDEAL MAN:

Confident, not arrogant.

Sharp mind, soft heart.

Modern thinker, old fashioned values.

Knows that intangibles matter most.

Has integrity - a strong moral compass guides his decisions.

Lives a balanced, drama-free life & has nothing to hide.

Values good health & has always been smoke/drug free.

Is aware of the fragility & brevity of life & takes nothing for granted.

Still believes in courtship, chivalry & romance.

Understands the impact of his actions & knows that everything he does directly affects those closest to him.

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Football, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Always been a huge dog lover. I really miss having dogs. Can't have dogs now living on a busy street. Also my yard is too small - not enough room for big dogs to run. I plan to build a new house in a year or two, then I'll get 2 four-legged babies.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Cancer
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Not much free time. Always solving problems. When I can get away, I enjoy: AUTUMN: Pats games, apple picking, biking. SUMMER: Cape Cod, rock concerts, picking fresh produce at local farms. WINTER: Hibernate! Doesn't sleeping count as an activity? ;)

Favorite hot spots:

Always hated the bar/club scene. No quality people there. Not much social life now since friends married & moved away long ago. If I had a companion, I'd enjoy New England weekend trips, new restaurants, sporting events, concerts, comedy shows, etc.

Favorite things:

COLOR: Purple. FOOD: Italian, Greek, Mexican, Seafood. TV: Friends, Seinfeld, Raymond, Smallville, Sex in City, Conan, SVU, Wings, Two & a Half Men, Shark Tank, The Voice, anything on HGTV. COMEDIANS: Nick DiPaolo, Denis Leary, Lisa Lampanelli.

Last read:

I mainly read informative things. Fav topics are real estate, health, psychology & technology. If I spend time reading, I want to learn something from it. I do sometimes enjoy a good autobiography of someone who's had an interesting life.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'11" (180cms) to 6'8" (203cms)
Body type:
About average
About average, Athletic and toned, Heavyset, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Architecture / Interior design

Web & graphic artist. I work from home & have flex hours. It's the perfect gig for me b/c I'm a creative, independent "out-of-the-box thinker," & I don't like being on a "corporate leash." I'm also a property owner / landlord / investor / flipper.

Income:
$25,001 to $35,000
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

Italian. Raised on big family meals, so I'm a "domestic diva,” good at making a house a home. Italian heritage was dominant growing up - was all about the FOOD! I’ve got many big guys named "Vinnie" in my family - father, brother, uncle, cousin, etc!

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Agnostic, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Raised Catholic - even survived Catholic school - but I don't really connect with it. I'm open to different faiths, beliefs & ideas. Because my heart & soul run deep, I feel I'm spiritual. I believe in a higher power, just haven't figured it all out.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Communications & graphic arts major. Due to my ADHD, I struggled to find my way & changed majors & colleges a few times. And speaking of ADHD, I hope you're familiar with it because it's something that greatly impacts my life & my behavior.

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