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41 year old woman
Meriden, Connecticut, United States

Seeking:
men 39-48
Within:
25 Miles of Meriden, Connecticut, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Hi, so what do you want to know about me? My stats, likes and dislikes, or the meaningful stuff??

STATS:
Legally divorced and fully single
FT parent of two girls (8 and 10)
Not hung up on any ex
Work FT
Own my house
Drink sensibly, don’t smoke
Never had a drug problem or STD (thank god, right?)
My pics are real
Most days I live simple…go to work and take care of my kids.

LIKES (AKA: TURN ONS)
Food and wine
Open-mindedness
A finished project
My girls laughing together
Snuggling on the couch at the end of the day
Cooking Channel, Home and Garden, Discovery
Intelligence and good conversation
Men from my generation (39 to 47)

DISLIKES (AKA: TURN OFFS)
Winks and likes…they’re unimpressive
Negative profiles…if you mention drama you’re dating the wrong women or for the wrong reasons
Men outside CT…dating is hard enough
Men not in my generation…nothing in common

MEANINGFUL STUFF
I think we all want the same thing…to find that person with the right combination of physical and emotional attraction. And you don’t figure that out with a couple of paragraphs and a few pictures. I believe the only way to know if there’s a spark is to chat and meet. But with that said, I don’t agree to meet anybody…it’s quality over quantity. First dates should be light and easy, then if we like each other let things unfold naturally.

For me online dating hasn’t made dating any easier. Too much shopping, unrealistic expectations and being contacted by descendants of Quasimodo…fun stuff. So, I’ve never had a relationship from being on a dating site…most guys I contact simply ignore me. But, I’m not ready to grow old alone yet…so here I am.

Most days I live simple…go to work and take care of my kids. But I have a normal balance…there are times when I want to chill at home, hang with family/friends, or to go out and have fun. My kids are a big part of my life and I need my partner to understand that. I’m not trying to replace their dad or have an instant family. If you have kids great…you get it. If not, you have to be willing to embrace the family thing (camping, trips to the museum, sidewalk chalk, refereeing their bickering)…in due time. I’m happy to add your kids to the mix, but don't want any more.

I've been divorced going on 6 years, dated someone for a year and have been single again for two. So, divorce and dating has certainly helped me know who I am and what I don’t want. I’ve realized I like taking care of those I love. I enjoy making the ordinary special, like glass plates at a picnic or a ketchup smiley face for the kids. When you’re happy, I’m happy. That’s not to say I don’t want reciprocation and TLC too! I take pride in myself, value and respect commitments, work hard to be genuine and straight, and I’m true to my word. Not crazy spontaneous but flexible. So, if our hike is rained out I might suggest bowling not a trip to Las Vegas. Be warned…I have an off color sense of humor and a lively personality so you have to be willing to handle playful sarcasm, bad jokes and enjoy being silly occasionally, like dancing in the living room while making up foolish lyrics.

I think intelligence is sexy and want to be able to have a conversation. I respect someone who puts home and family first, but knows how to have a healthy balance. I try to make the best of what I’m doing…smiling and laughing can make (almost) anything memorable and special. I’m open minded and want to experience the things you enjoy and want someone to share that same opinion (learning is fun). Food and wine is important to me. I feel like a lot of your style and personality is expressed in your cooking and food. I like to cook and been told I'm good at it. So, if you’re a picky eater you’ll take away my fun. I love a Sunday dinners…just need your help to tone down the chaos. Wine is awesome because it goes well with the cooking thing...socializing and relaxing.

If any of this sounds good to you send me an email

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Dancing, Martial arts, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

At some point I know I'm going to end up getting a dog.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Leo
College:
American InterContinental University Online, Hoffman Estates, IL
For fun:

Spending time with friends and family doing whatever comes up. Family dinners, going out, museum, amusement park, casino, shopping, skeet shooting, tailgating, wine tasting, grilling, comedy show, concert....

Favorite hot spots:

I haven’t traveled much, but up for it. Esca, Makado’s, Longhorn’s. The couch at the end of a long day.

Favorite things:

My kids laughter. Sharing time with those I love. Finishing a project. Good health.

Last read:

Don’t have time to read much. Do love a book when I get a chance. My last read was probably Time magazine.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 7'0" (213cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Blonde
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Administrative / Secretarial
No preference

I’m an executive administrative assistant.

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

I’m French, German and Irish, but that had little bearing growing up. Just an American blend.

Faith:
Christian / Other
No preference

I haven't attend in awhile, unsure of the truth but I enjoyed that it reminded me to live as a better person.

Languages:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree

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