I am looking for a fellow traveler on the journey to self discovery who sees relationship as a way to embrace not only another but their own shadow as well. Being vulnerable in relationship can be exciting and terrifying at times. I'm looking for a man I admire and enjoy playing with. Someone who is wise and kind, who is willing to challenge me and challenge themselves to be more whole human beings and who likes an adventure. And who is interested in being in the life of my 2.5 year old daughter (eventually) and who is interested in a long term relationship. And who wants to have fun and laugh...and cry...and be real.
If the motive for relationship is either "Life is too hard to be single or Life is too good not to be shared." I'm definitely motivated by the latter as life is full.
I do enjoy traveling, a glass of wine in a hot tub under the stars, hiking, solitude, nature, art, etc. But I guess I feel like the activities that someone enjoys matters less to me than who they are, how we might relate, and what we both want from relationship.