My time here is about to expire and I have no plans of renewing my membership. I will answer emails until but this has not been a successful site for me. What it has been is a great source of entertainment. My favorite "flirt" was from someone who was looking for someone "exactly" like my profile talked about AND then I read "his" profile - HiS profile talked about HIS ex husband (umm, I don't think so). A close second runner up was the gentleman I met for lunch who successfully got a "date" but it was because his profile was crap. If you are missing 75% of your teeth you should probably mention that somewhere in your profile as I was kind enough to not walk away right then. Racial slurs used in the first 15 minutes of meeting is not recommended either. We may be in the south but not everyone is ignorant - I don't tolerate it...and lastly, we all are looking for some specific things and we also know that other things are not attractive to us. I'm 42 and at no point said I was interested in 70 year old men, I'm not obese but I'm not thin either. Realistically I don't expect someone unrealistic to respond. Somethings just are hard limits (like no smoking). Guys, when you are 300 lbs you are NOT average and if you are 300 lbs I hope you have something amazing to offer to get the slender/fit woman you are seeking. I really don't think that "stocky" or "athletic" describes 300 lbs. I have reached out to many people who actually are on the surface compatible yet I haven't even received a thanks but I'm not interested reply. I'm not upset, just thought I'd share some of the entertainment this website has brought me.
So, there you have it, a great source of twisted entertainment but nothing else.
Best of luck on your search. If you have read this far please continue to see what I really am.
Independent - Playful
Loyal - Determined
Low maintenance - Comfortable with who I am - Drama Free
Adventurous - A mother, sister, aunt & friend (very family oriented)
What I’m looking for:
Clever/witty - Playful (not hurtful)
Competitive (but not overly)- Independent
Drama free - Health conscious (not a health nut)
Someone who is not afraid to throw a ball in the yard with friends
Someone who is comfortable with who he is
What I am not:
Clingy - Dependent on others
Full of drama - Not looking for one night relationship(s)
Into playing head games
What I don’t want:
Clingy - Dependent
Selfish - High maintenance
Jealous - Glass half empty kind of guy
Missing teeth - Smoker
A great job that I love - A house
A car - Great family and friends
2 kids (16 & 19 – one lives with me every other week, the other is In college and on her own)
I want to surround myself around people who share some of the same basic principles and values as I do.
I’m an honest, caring, fun loving woman who is drama free. I believe that honesty is the foundation of any good relationship. Family time is extremely important to me. I am family oriented, independent, and career oriented. I love cuddling and giving back massages. I truly enjoy a playful battle of wits and admit when I’m wrong. I prefer jeans but can dress up and light up a room when required. I enjoy talking as much as I enjoy listening and learning as much as I enjoy playing. I am comfortable with silence, sometimes snuggling up watching a movie or sharing the couch or deck with a good book in hand is the quality time needed. I don’t believe the quantity of time equals quality time.
Sports, I enjoy watching football (Bears then Titans and Vandy then Vols), baseball (Cubs – not White Sox – then Braves), and college basketball (Vandy). I enjoy just about any live sport (college and pro).
I enjoy walks in the park and walking hiking trails, live music, sushi at Ru San's and theme parks (Cedar Point is my fav!!!). I also enjoy listening to a decent jazz band sitting on the deck with a drink, bon fires, a deck of cards, and cookouts.