Growing up a coach’s kid, I learned to approach life with determination and resilience. I can be hard on myself, but I know the rewards of setting and achieving personal goals. I would say I’m a left-brained, analytical personality type, but I also have a deep appreciation for creativity and beauty. Even though I tend to have strong opinions, I believe that the opinions of others should always be heard and respected. My relationships with my family and friends are solidly based on honesty, loyalty and communication. I can be quick with a comeback or a sarcastic remark, but it’s always meant in fun; I’m a softie underneath. I’m a compassionate, reliable person, a natural planner and I pride myself in anticipating the needs of the people I love.
Above all things, my son makes me happy, but I believe a well-timed glass of wine ensures the survival of my lineage. I can find so much happiness in the simple pleasures of home. I love a book I can’t put down. I love my morning coffee on the patio. I like my privacy, but I’m also pretty social. I’m not much of a “joiner” as far as clubs or organizations, but I have fun meeting new people, taking trips and going out with my friends. I enjoy what the city has to offer: restaurants (I’m a fairly adventurous eater), bars, outdoor concerts. I’m a lover of nature as well. You won’t find me rappelling cliffs, but I love picking wildflowers on a hike, or camping at the lake with friends. No matter what anyone says, boats and beer DO go together.
Deliberate ignorance irritates me. I can be impatient with people who are unobservant and unaware of others. It’s common courtesy to be on time, to do what you say you’re going to do, to be respectful of other peoples’ space. I have no tolerance for drama, dishonesty or people who are perpetual “victims”. I get annoyed with other’s unwillingness to try new things. Finicky eaters, for instance, drive me crazy. I try not to judge, and people who are unapologetically judgmental don’t fit into my life.
As a partner, I will support your ambitions. I will be a good listener. I will be respectful of your time, your motivations and your commitments. I will do what I can to make your burdens a little lighter. I will be affectionate, kind and passionate. I will try to crack you up on a daily basis. I will be sensitive to your wants. I will make you proud to be with me. I won’t look for reasons to create jealousy or insecurity.
I want to be allowed my independence. I expect to be treated kindly and with sensitivity. I want my partner to concern himself with my care, my safety, and my happiness. I am strong, but I don’t want to have to be the “man”. I don’t need to be put on a pedestal, but I want to know that I am cherished and desired.
