i moved here to turn my dreams into reality. i'm an artist and self-employed photographer, so i follow my intuition and passion and throw myself fully into projects. when i'm not working on a project, i rest a lot and regroup. i can be very outgoing and charming, but i also need to relax alone or in small groups of calm, reasonable people. my friends are very important to me. i have a good relationship with my family--we are very helpful and devoted to each other. i don't wear makeup and i am very casual--jeans and my hair up most days, and full disclosure: i get lazy about shaving my legs sometimes. i know how to look good if i want to but i'm more interested in being comfortable and capable. i don't watch sports. i am looking for someone flexible, fun, witty, dependable and open-hearted, with a sense of humor, good communication skills and emotional intelligence who wants to savor the time we have together. healthy boundaries without walls are ideal. i just got out of a long relationship and am not looking for anything serious, dramatic or difficult. if it is fun, easy and compatible between us, let's see where it goes. eventually i want a partner in life who loves to be around me and can do his own thing while i do mine and vice versa.