Im going to be honest. There is nothing that I could type here that would 'sell' myself to the crowd; and sadly because this is online dating personality wont be tested at all unless a date is made, right? Its based off of first glance. However I will share and little and hopefully I can give a little insight as to who I am and what I need and want in a guy.
First off, I am not mean. I am by nature shy but I have no problem standing up firmly and strongly for my passions, my family and my beliefs.
So, so, soooo many men here are saying that they are looking for a good time or 'fun'. Um, yeah...good luck with that. I am a GROWN woman and I dont have that kind of random fun. I did that in my 20's and it was fun while it lasted, but I grew up!
I am a divorced mommy to a few meaning I have requirements. My guy has to have children of his own. A man cannot understand little ones unless he works with them daily or has his own. Gainfully employed. I hold down a job he must do the same. He holds me up while I hold him down. Educated - I'm not saying that he has to have a college degree but a high school education while remaining articulate is a great start. Race...totally not an issue. Humor, I need a guy with humor! Me and my silly moments will not mesh with a stiff, just saying. Family is big for me. I have a large family and I would prefer a guy that comes from a large family - those with big families would totally get it!
Im a thick/curvy girl, with imperfect skin, tattoos and a heart of gold. It takes me a while sometimes but - when you know its right, you just know.
so... if you're interested drop me a line. Im really as sweet as a lemon drop with just enough bite to keep your attention! *kisses*