I'm a confident Woman, who has chosen not to date for a period of time. I work hard, am successful at what I do and define myself by my work ethic. I have a beautiful 11 yr old daughter. I canot and do not want to have anymore kids, i am NOT opposed to taking on someone elses child or children. I am looking for someone who knows where they are going in life, is motivating, can help me unwind after a stressful day, has a romantic side (but not too sappy), is a gentleman but realizes that doesn't mean I CAN'T do things myself ( be supportive and encouraging, instead). I want a friend, a lover, a confidant and I want someone who is confident enough in our relationship that doesn't spaz out if I choose to do my own thing.