I am a kind, passionate optimist. I am looking for a man's man that will still know how to be kind and to know that while knowledge is power, forgiveness is bliss. I want to choose to be with someone, not feel like I need that person, and it would be wonderful if this were reciprocated. I am extremely upfront and honest, and feel like judgements and taking things personally is a waste of time. Kindness, truth, gratitude and love are what is based on. Let me know if you agree .