"Help ever, hurt never" that's a motto that I try to live by every day. I love to laugh and especially make others laugh. In the words of Carlos Mencia "If you're not laughing, you're not living" that is so true, laughter can be so healing. My friends have described me as having a big heart, thoughtful, loving, kind, a great sense of humor and a bit of a smartass at times (ooops! can I say "" on here?) I'm looking for that special someone to do things with, enjoy life and if all goes well have a lasting relationship.