Moving to Hawaii in June....To save us both time if you aren't interest in a serious relationship, if you have marked non-religious, other religion, buddist, muslim,(my match and I must share a common faith) if you have no photos or photos that are of your "toys"(boats, vehicles, big screen tv) , or so old they look closer to your high school graduation pictures( if your still living that far in the past your 1 emotionally stunted and unable to accept you expanding waist line and receding hairline and/or 2 , insecure... I need a match who is as confident and as secure as I am I don't want to have to stroke someone's ego to make them feel good). If you aren't interested in having children regardless of whether you have some already we aren't a match move on...
I have been waiting my whole life for Mr. Right…so far we haven’t found each other. I am a very independent woman with a zest for life. Details are the most important thing about life; like in a relationship it's never about how much you’re able to give, but rather the quality of what you give. A man who gives flowers all of the time is just well trained. A man who finds out what a girls favorite flower, color, ect and delivers it to her.... is my type of man.
In my free time those precious stolen moments I like curling up and reading, usually some sort of espionage based story; vegging out watching TV; shows like House, CSI, NCS, or a movie. I also enjoy hitting the town dressed to nines with my friends for dancing, karaoke, drinking, and various bar associated gaming. I love to cook and I do it with flair. It’s always a pleasure to cook for others I am the consummate hostess. I’m not that crazy about getting down and dirty with nature because I get enough of at work so it's not as enticing as let’s say walking through city street and people watching, taking photographs, absorbing the culture through every pore and orifice (taste, sound, sight, smell, feel)...it helps you listen to your inner self. I also love architecture and history these bones from the past are what we grew from and hopefully learned from. I’m not an adrenaline junkie, but I do enjoy a challenge so if you’d like to do something I normally wouldn’t like say skydiving challenge me. I can be stubborn and I'm definitely not a quitter. I love to be in the spot light, but I also enjoy keeping my private life private. I can at times be a little over dramatic; my mom says it comes with being creative. I am an Officer in the United States Army currently it is my occupation not who I am; though it reflects greatly on the type of person I am. Some of my Hobbies/interest include: Photography, graphic design, painting, reading, writing(a lot of poetry and introspective writing), karaoke, dancing, basically any form of creative expression.
If you think you’re the one... Do a backbone check, I can't stand a man who is a doormat. I'm a independent, bone-headed, stubborn, woman, but a real man knows he has a place; whether it's at my elbow to escort across the street, with his arms wrapped around me as he spins me around the dance floor, or with his face buried in my hair as I burrow into his chest to curl up and sleep after love making. If you don’t know who Picasso, Renoir, and Monet are you might want to learn. Your reading should extend beyond the morning newspaper. A man who is capable of taking care of himself is admirable these days, picking up after himself, washing clothes and dishes, cooking, and dressing himself appropriately for any occasion. Be able to tell me no when no is what you mean or want. Tell me I'm wrong when I am wrong and admit your wrong when you are wrong. Understand the value of "I'm sorry", "I promise", and "I love you." COMMUNICATION is soooo important to me!