I am happy, positive, passionate and bright, and I am just as comfortable being in the spotlight as blending into the decor. It is all a matter of mood and inclination! At times I am enthusiastic and effervescent; at others, more laid back, mellow, and content to keep quietly to myself. I think I am friendly, relatively outgoing, and fun-loving. I love my family, especially my parents, my two baby (baby! These are grown men with wives and even children) brothers, my two sisters-in-law, and my beloved, adorable, can't-get-enough-of-them niece and nephews. With me, you get unconditional loyalty, fidelity and support: I take care of my own. That is to say, I defend first, ask questions later, and will always take your part against “outsiders”. I will, however, let you know what I really think—but in private.
I am serious, dedicated and driven when I need to be. If I commit to something/someone, it’s for keeps, and I try my level best to see it through. I have a certain degree of determination in my makeup, and if I think the cause is worth it, I am willing to put in the time and energy to make it a success. I suppose I am somewhat a perfectionist.
I cannot live without singing and dancing. I must have music in my life, or I just will not be happy. I so very much enjoy these things, and I tend to do them well; they are a big part of who I am, and it is a passion of mine that I hope to share with my life partner, whomever he may be. My parents were first drawn together by a love of singing, and they passed both the ability, and the desire, on to us—as I would like someday to pass the same on to my children, from both of their parents.
I believe I am the kind of person that a partner can be proud to have at his side. Let’s face it: Appearances are important. I usually can adapt to the milieu; if formality is required I am elegant and poised; if hiking in the hills I am not afraid of a little dust and dirt. I can take charge when necessary or step back and follow.
I am most interested in a strong, upright, good old GOD-fearing man. Honesty, integrity, and the ability to act accordingly with kindness, caring and sensitivity for another person's feelings are essential. Self-respect is key. Respect for others is also as important. He should be assertive and self-assured without being arrogant or domineering, and secure enough to appreciate and admire (and expect, even) the same traits in his woman. He will be a man who leads his family but is a partner; loves and respects his mother (father, too) and family; and complements me perfectly, as I do him. He would be someone who is strong where I am weak, and vice versa. He is a man I can trust and to whom I can entrust not just my life, but the lives of my—our—children.
I would hope that he would be musical: So maybe he can’t sing (though that would be nice!); but perhaps he can rock the saxophone or some other instrument. In any event, we should literally be able to make beautiful music together (smile).
And last, but not least, I like good-looking. To me, that is. They say beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so a guy should be pleasing to my eye, at least! I do rather suspect, though, that if he is all of the above, and more, he will just automatically ~be~ good-looking to me, anyway...
