I am at a point in my life where I have everything I need and most of the things I want. I do not subscribe to this idea of the eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, but I would call myself an optimist. I laugh a lot, I look "on the bright side" of life, I derive the lessons to be learned from mistakes. I am confident in my ability to be good to the people in my life and mutual consideration is a must. I am no stranger to sarcasm and I am not above acting the fool for entertainment value. I am looking for someone who is right there with me. Someone who believes 100% in the sanctity of commitment and partnership. I am intelligent, relatively opinionated, and competent and I need a guy who will not feel intimidated or threatened by this. I want you to have your own opinions and a good sense of self and be confident enough to let me have mine. We are individuals and bound to see some things differently and we need to be able to respect and accept those differences while we celebrate the things we have in common. I am a modern day girl who loves old fashioned gestures and I am not here to rush into anything. I lead a pretty healthy lifestyle and I intend to continue doing so long into old age so it is a must that my partner be committed to the same thing, on all levels: physical, emotional, psychological, etc. (I really can't stress enough how important this is to me)(REALLY).
If you are into taking pictures of yourself in the bathroom mirror or your favorite subject is yourself you probably aren't the right guy for me. I like an understated man who is confident in what he has to offer and capable of considering things outside himself. Someone who is tough, but fair, and willing to do the right thing even if it isn't the easy thing.
Things that I enjoy:
Having a healthy child
Good football "GO HAWKS!"
Hot, sunny days
Pacific Northwest storms
Being in shape
Music that moves me (or makes me move)
Watching my son grow
Being around horses
Having people to cook for
Small gestures that show you care
Watching someone groove as they walk down the street listening to music
Witnessing random acts of kindness
Having a plan
E36 M3s (though the E93 gives me something new to lust after)
Seeing the glass as half full
Having a day with no agenda
Trips to the spa
Giving back to the community