I love to communicate, laugh and enjoy life. I am very romantic, and I enjoy socializing as much as I enjoy "me" time. No kids, and being a single independent woman has been my anthem, but, I am ready to share all that I am with some one. I just don't know where he his. I am very loving, loyal, and affectionate with the right person.
I enjoy traveling and I have been quite a few places. Weekend getaways are fun also. I am a Foodie and I enjoy cooking as well as being cooked for.
I enjoy trying new things. I rencently went on a bike ride from SFO to Tiburon and had a ball. Had not rode a bike outside the gym since a teenager...I am casual most of time but enjoy dressing up for an occasion. I love a beautiful smile and nice skin. But, most of all a good heart and a good chracter. I don't go to bars or clubs, but I don't mind meeting at a restaurant for a drink. I love tea all kinds if tea. I am a generous and a very caring person. I go to church, I consider myself spiritual and not per say religious. Just a good old sometimes old fashion woman. I believe in being dated and courted and not just jumping right into claiming a man as my other half or signifcant others or any of those other pet names. I don't mind watching sports with my man, but I don't watch them alone and I don't have a team nor am I a big sports fan. But I will partipate if my man is really into sports. I will share your interest as long as you share minds. I am not selfish. I do know how to compromise and I am willing to do so for the right person, and if I think it's fair and reasonible.
I have been single for a long time, very selective and I have been busy trying to build my life, I changed my career and my entire life style in the last three years. Just made my life simple, so I simply live. Relationships have just not been a big priorty. But, since I'll be 45 in one week, I guess I better get serious about meeting someone. I am very happy with my own company, so I am not the type to be clinging. Some men (possessive) get upset if you say, "hey, I know it's Saturday night, but I worked all week and I just want to lay around and watch movies (alone). They think "really"...if I am really feeling you, I will want to be with you most times. But, I have a life, friends and family and until you are important enough to introduce you to those important to me, I have to juggle my time. I am not going to change my whole life to accomindate a relationship that has not proven it's worth. I keep it real and very straight forward, no guessing games with me.
I expect a man in my age group to have children and to have probably already been married. I don't have any issues with this as long as it's all resolved and put into it's proper place. I would never ask you to choose between your children and me. There just has to be a balance. I don't think relationships are Rocket Science, just treat a person how you want to be treated. Simple.