Im fun, spontaneous, and looking for adventure. There's a time and place for everything. I like to relax when it's time to relax and have fun when I want to have fun. Looking for a free spirited person who's not afraid to do things on his own and be independent when he wants to, I just think we all need time to do his and her things ( her shopping, him fishing lol) but hey when we meet back its like we were never apart ...Distance makes the heart grow fonder..(true believer of that) I like a man to take charge of the situation you know, no beating around the bush about important things, to me it makes them look weak and that is what makes a man let a women walk all over him..it really shouldn't be that way a man who takes charge makes them SEXY as ..well.. you know:-) Im not saying being controlling but just be a MAN.....Since I have been on this site I find there are 30,40 even 50 year old men that are into games all I say You know grow up!!!! yesterday games are old news and you should know that by now that we are not teens and 20 year olds we are ADULTS and if game playing is your goal then maybe you should hang out at the skating rinks to find your dates.. So don't bother if all your looking for is a one night fling because I'm on here for much better reasons for just a roll in the covers....Hey you know maybe this is being straight forward but I just know what I want.....Thanks for viewing and reading my profile ..Everyone is different and thats what makes us all unique...so good luck, have fun and throw your sunshine around and just maybe you will find the Love of your life..