I'm a single mom who has devoted a lot of time to my kids. But now it's time for me to do something for myself. I enjoy traveling. I've always thought it would be fun to visit each state at least once. I'm looking for somebody in the Indianapolis metropolitan area. I've tried the long distance relationship thing and it's just not for me. I need someone close by that I can be spontaneous with and it doesn't always take a lot of planning just to get together. Please understand that this is a deal breaker for me. I apologize if that hurts your feelings but if you don't live within a short driving distance, I will not respond. I don't want to waste our time.I've been divorced for several years. I'm looking for someone who wants to spend time with me and wants to participate in my life, and I want to participate in yours. I miss having that one person I can call just to talk about the craziest things that happen to me because he's the only one who would really care.I don't need a pen pal. I want to spend time together, getting to know each other, not just text or email. Hearing your voice and seeing your body language is vital to building a relationship. I want a best friend and confidante. I want someone who will enjoy spending time with me, and not just at your convenience but at mine, also. Communication is vital. I can't read your mind, so please tell me what you're thinking or how you're feeling. Please don't make me guess. I truly am looking for a long term relationship. I am loyal and faithful and I'd like the same in a man. Relationships involve risk. We're all human and we're all going to hurt each other inadvertently. We just need to say we're sorry and work to not do it again. There is risk involved with just getting together - someone has to sell their house, someone has to move, the kids might not like you or me, you might be afraid that I'll spend more time with my kids than with you...whatever your perceived risk, I can promise you this:
1) If at any time during the relationship I don't see a connection or feel it just isn't working anymore, I will not just fade away and hope you get the idea when I don't return your calls. Instead, I will definitely tell you and I won't waste our time. I would appreciate the same consideration from you. We're adults. Feelings might be hurt but it's better to just end it than to keep the other person wondering.
2) If I do like you, I will spend time with you, getting to know you better in your world - home, work, activities, kids' activities, etc. I would like you to spend time with me in my world also.
3) If I fall in love with you and you are willing to take your risk for me, you will not be sorry. You will get a huge return on your investment. I will make sure of that.Thank you for reading my profile. Good luck in your search!
