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33 year old woman
Oxford, Mississippi, United States

Seeking:
men 24-40
Within:
150 Miles of Oxford, Mississippi, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Curvy
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Daily
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I've never been very good at condensing myself into these open-essay 'self summary' type things; no matter how I try, I am never satisfied that they represent me properly. They just grow longer and longer, yet I can always think of more things I ought to include.

For years, I have had in my profile that I consider myself firmly polyamorous. However, I am coming to find, through much soul-searching, that that is not exactly true. In this day and age, 'dating' and 'courting' have gotten lumped into one neat little package... if you go on more than one date with someone, you're 'dating' them and only them... you're basically already married and monogamous, just without the legalities. I find that silly. So, in other words... when I'm dating someone, I will not offer exclusivity; however, for the right person, either polyamory or monogamy would be an option... *eventually*. The reason I clung to it for so long, though, is that I do form very deep emotional bonds with people; deep enough that many people might consider it 'cheating' in your standard relationship. So what I truly need is understanding, and trust, concerning that... the physical side is virtually irrelevant to me when all is said and done.

As a sort of addendum or corollary to the above... I tend to fall in love quickly, and deeply. This means two things: one, if I don't feel something for someone fairly quickly, I'm not likely to. It may grow over time, but it's not likely to come out of nowhere if it wasn't there pretty quickly. The other side is that it has been very painfully brought to my attention that how quickly and how deeply I fall can scare and drive away guys who I am otherwise pretty perfectly matched with. If this is likely with you, please save us both the pain and keep looking.

As for orientation, although basically straight, I am slightly bi-playful(ie, I'm rather obsessed with breasts for a straight woman, lol). A friend put it perfectly... I'm bisexual from the waist up!

I'm a member of the SCA; I also adore RP(role playing, online and tabletop... I'm *not* talking about 'bedroom stuff'... that's a whole different subject ^.~ ).

Most people never even really see anything from me that might be considered 'religious' in any sense... largely due to the fact that my main 'belief' is that it doesn't matter what you believe in... it is simply having belief that is important.

I have decided it is also worth noting one other thing here. I am not one of those people who think that all relationships between members of the opposite sex must be, or lead to, an intimate/sexual relationship. Many people seem to think it not worth talking to a member of the opposite sex unless there is a strong possibility of such a relationship. I have had, and thoroughly enjoyed, friendships with men that were either completely platonic, or 'mildly' intimate at most (cuddling and the like). People here seem hesitant to contact someone if they don't seem like a potential 'match'... I think that is verging on silly. The 'friends' percentage is there for a reason.

In addition to that, apparently I need to note that I am NOT here for the sole purpose of finding sex, nor do I want sexual relationships that are void of anything else. See over there on the right? Yeah, I *don't* have "casual encounters (sex)" listed. At the very least there needs to be a pretty strong connection there, if not an established friendship or more. Empty sex is, well, empty; it's meaningless and I'm not interested.

And, if anyone cares, apparently I am an INFP, or perhaps an INFJ, depending on the test. I assume it depends largely on which questions are asked, and how they are asked. And also apparently, my 'best match' would be an ENFJ. (Though honestly I'm not sure how much stock I put in such things.)

I don't really know much else to say at this point, so I shall stop. ;)

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Playing cards
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Dancing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Birds
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I have a major weakness for sci-fi in all genres, also enjoy fantasy, though I'm open to just about anything except bloody/gory slasher flicks with little or no plotline. Intelligent thrillers are a different subject.

Favorite hot spots:

I love to travel; the destination is almost irrelevant. I love experiencing and exploring new places and what they have to offer. One of my favorite things is to try the local cuisine; every town has it's own unique taste unlike anywhere else.

Favorite things:

My favorite food is probably a really good rare steak; sushi comes in pretty high in the list too. I'd be hard-pressed to pick a single favorite book, but if I -had- to, I suppose I'd say Glory Season by David Brin.

Last read:

I actually finally finished The Lord of the Rings for the first time. Tried a few times before but never could finish for one reason or another.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'5" (165cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
Curvy
About average, Heavyset, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Daily
Occasionally, Daily, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

In theory, I own my own business making handmade herbal and aromatherapy bath and body products.

Income:
I'll tell you later
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Native American, White / Caucasian

I am first generation American on my mother's side; she was born in Slovenia. Mixed Western European/American on my father's side.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Spiritual but not religious, Other

My religious views are a bit odd; I think all religions are valid, that they are all different approaches towards the same goal. Likewise I think all prayer is equally valid; it is all just different types of framework to try and reach out.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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