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43 year old woman
Santa Cruz, California, United States

Seeking:
men 40-50
Within:
Miles of
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm feminine, playful, happy with my life and feel good exploring near and far. Feeling healthy and fit are important to me. I'm originally from the Peninsula and have traveled a lot. I value making time for friends and family and keeping an open mind. If you've read Gary Chapman's book on 'love languages' I value touch and quality (over quantity) time…

I'm a calm and passionate realistic optimist. I'm warm and affectionate and make my cozy little house a haven for inspiration and love. I'm fairly independent and appreciate the freedom we all need to fulfill personal goals. My past relationships have been long-term, starting slowly first as friends and having fun, then naturally moving closer together. I'm an open person; I like intimacy and want to hear who you really are.

I respect progressive, global thought. I believe in conservation, Maslow's Hierarchy, that form follows function and people are born good. I believe in being gracious and don't show up empty-handed. I feel invigorated accumulating more and more white space in my cupboards and closets (still working on my shoes).

I'm an attentive and relaxed mom always striving to ensure my daughter's happiness (she's five, conscientious, funny, and holds her own at a sushi bar). I share her half the time with her dad, who's a great co-parent.

Now about you... You're intelligent, good-natured, fun, more on the masculine side and like to take the lead sometimes. You have a humble sort of confidence, don't do drugs and are healthy. You're ambitious while also valuing friends and family. You're grounded, have probably traveled outside the US and are likely craving another fun trip soon. You're polite to our waiter and ignore your phone at the table… that sort of thing.

I'm looking for a full-fledged fun grown-up; the right man to share a vibrant, inspired life with.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

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Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
I'll tell you later
College:
University of California, Davis, Davis, CA
For fun:

Skin still salty from the sea, walking to dinner... or anywhere, learning more about biology and ecology, juxtaposition, cool art anywhere, concocting tasty slow whole food, holding hands at the movies (or anywhere), weekends away, weeks away…

Favorite hot spots:

Most are intimate spots (Nick's, Cin Cin, Evvia, Soif on Mondays for music and oysters, Companion and Odonata on Tuesdays, Wayfare Tavern, picnics with a view, The Aquarius, The Nick, orchestra seats), and I'm always game to explore something new.

Favorite things:

Anything homemade or home-grown. Trying something new. Conservation. Road trips to new places. Exercising every other day. Inspiring others. Getting to the heart of things. Things that are cord- or battery-free. Fresh seafood. Cold room, warm bed.

Last read:

I'm getting better at reading fewer books at a time…

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

I'm happy with my work and am so grateful for having flexible hours.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
$100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

For what it's worth, I was born at Stanford Hospital and have an English mum.

Faith:
Agnostic
No preference

I don't practice anything prescribed but instead practice daily being the best woman, mom and partner I can be. I'm true to my word, unpretentious, conscientious, straightforward, loyal, and kind.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I majored in Sociology and dabbled a little in Viticulture, Economics, Art History, Child Development, and Nutrition.

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