I have never done the online dating thing, but a friend talked me into it. So this is a whole new thing for me. I am a very independent person. I am a very caring and honest person, I do not play games,I am too busy in my life for that. I have been separated over a year and my divorce was final in march 2012. I have 3 boys 23,20, and 16 , 2 of them live at home with me. I am the youngest of 5. I am not the prissy type. I love being in my jeans or shorts, t shirt and flip flops. bbqs, hanging out with the family and friends is the best. but i also like a quiet down time too. I enjoy fishing (when I can) and can bait my own hook , just need help taking the fish off. (ha ha) I work at the local high school and enjoy watching the games the kids play.. I do have a part time job 3 nights a week for extra money at a local restaurant . I enjoy going on walks, out on a boat, and watching football and ncis.. I am into holding hands in public and showing affection ( but not over board). well thats some things in my life. want to know more then we can chat. I want someone that is comfortable with his self, not wanting what someone else has, be happy with what you have in life, not miserable .I want a man that puts a smile on my face when i see his name on my phone and I want him to feel the same way. No drama , and no games, my boys are my world and will always be first,if you have children then you understand.