Hello, there is a song by Michael Jackson called "Got to be there" that song embodies how I feel in my soul about the person that I will one day fall in love with. I am a genuine kind person, this does not mean i'm perfect and that I don't make mistakes i'm a human being. I like the quality of a person so i guess what i'm saying is that it's on the inside of you that would be most attractive, but good looks are not a bad thing to have lol. I have raised a wonderful family on my own and i'm humbled and proud of that. what doesn't kill the soul will only make you, the person if you'll allow yourself to be, a stronger more loving person.
What my heart desires, is a man that is mentally ready and capable of being in a long-term intimate relationship that just may someday if it's right, lead to a beautiful marriage. Qualities that are important for my man to have are without a doubt a love for God, a good sense of humor, a job, a respect for mankind, honesty a man that really does loves himself and family and is not afraid to put himself out there, even be a little vulnerable to find his lifetime love.
I do not want a man that is not ready for a relationship, that cannot be faithful is afraid of honesty and intimacy and does not know who he truly is. No drugs no drama just love, friendship, joy and laughter. Life is too short and i'm at a point in mine where i'm seriously ready to share mine with a great guy. If your not an honest person, just looking to waste my time, keep looking i'm not interested, no winks needed no e-mail exchange is welcomed. Nothing happens in an instant but if your serious about a long term relationship based on love,respect and all that good stuff then lets talk, I don't bite.