I first went on match after going out with some friends and was so disappointed in the quality of men at the bar. I know the good guys are out there. But they sure aren't hanging out in bars. So here goes: I would like to be with my best friend. Someone that's funny and has a Beautiful heart. I feel attraction is important but a great attitude is more important. We should have enough in common that we can share things but enough not in common so we don't lose our self identity. I wake up joking and go to bed laughing. I don't like yelling or arguing and would prefer to work things out nicely. My perfect match is someone who doesn't try to be something they aren't. Someone that likes themselves and is interesting. I am looking for someone that respects my space as well as I his space. But has enough time to want a relationship. Why would you come on match looking for a relationship but not have time for one? Just don't get it. I was once told, if someone wants to be with you, they will make time for you. I work, go to school (RN student, last year), volunteer EMT, mom to an incredible son ( best thing in my life), keep a beautiful clean house and take care of the yard (because I am gangsta like that) and still would happily make time for love in my life.
So if it was as easy as customizing a boyfriend, lover, hopefully one day husband, I would look for
1.great sense of humor 2.positive attitude (even in hard times) 3. Doesn't like to argue 4. Great smile 5. Caring and giving towards others 6.patient 7.loves dogs 8. Loves God 9. Is not going to give me an emotional roller coaster of a ride (really wants to make a life) 10. Doesn't show his bare chest on match (guys do you really think it is classy to show your chest) 11. Chemistry (gotta have chemistry) 12. Can carry himself in an situation and I'm not embarrassed to take him places 13. Is nice to the help ( they are people too) just be nice 14. Is not cheap ( I am smart with money but cheap is such a turn off) 15. Loves football 16. Laughs at my jokes (even if they aren't funny, but they are) 17. A gentleman (yes please open the door for me) 18. Has friends (some guys come on here to create a relationship with girls cause they have no friends) something wrong with you if you have no friends 19. Speaks well (not like a thug) 20. Not embarrassed to bring you home to mom and dad