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39 year old woman
Louisville, Colorado, United States

Seeking:
men 37-47
Within:
50 Miles of Louisville, Colorado, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
I'll tell you later
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Regularly

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I’m kind, sensitive, awkward, creative, and sensual. I revel in the sound of laughter that is a little too loud. I say inappropriate things when I’m nervous, which is often. I’m happier outside than in, except when there is a good book, and a better bottle.

I’m looking for someone who is brutally honest, with a gut-wrenching sense of humor that is, if I'm lucky, a little off-color. Above all, your heart is inherently kind; you are a truth-teller and a giant in my world.

I have a penchant for people who find art and science equally alluring, who understand that the two are not mutually exclusive.

There is hardly a bigger turn-on than seeing someone engage in what they're passionate about. I used to think what that particular thing was mattered. But, as it turns out, it doesn't. Whether it's art, baseball, or vintage porn; if it lights you from within, it's sexy.

I believe there is a spectrum of madness/groundedness, if you will. On one end you have the person with perfect equanimity, completely grounded, self-aware… essentially, Buddha. On the other end is The Narcissist, the broken artist, fascinating and magnetic, but emotionally hobbled. I’m seeking someone more towards the center. I do gravitate towards the wounded; I am an empath and care-giver by nature. But I am focusing now on the center of the spectrum. I am seeking the wild-eyed madman who has the courage to look inward and grow.

Fundamentally, I need open communication. I realize it's not always easy, but I believe any conversation can be worked through if you are brave, and if you can trust that the person on the other end is going to hear you with compassion. Even kink and clown masks can be addressed, if there are open hearts and open minds… I'm not saying that's my thing, it's just an uncomfortable example.

I like beer and dirty jokes too.

Interests:
I'll tell you later
Sports & exercise:
I'll tell you later
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

Milo is my sweet, bear-faced boy. He is mostly indifferent to people, and cares only for bunnies. But once in a rare moon, he likes to cuddle close.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
Favorite things:

A Confederacy of Dunces, Larry David, Yeats, Dylan, Joyce, rain, cartoons, manners, kindness, absurdity, anywhere at night when the stars are out (and when they're not), spicy everything.

Last read:

Piccadilly Jim by P.G. Wodehouse (Wodehouse is magic, unbridled joy).

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Slender
No preference
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Regularly
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I work in electromagnetics/machine design and think I could learn about it for all eternities and still not quite get it... which I love (and fear! but love)...

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Faith:
Agnostic
No preference

I am fascinated, and generally humbled, by it all.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

I have degrees in Philosophy and Electrical Engineering (and I'm totally ADD, obviously). :)

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