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LivelyLadyDrJ

Looking for a long-term relationship, where having fun, being at peace and mutual commitment are the main goals.

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38 year old woman
Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States

Seeking:
men 33-47
Within:
30 Miles of Virginia Beach, Virginia, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
I'll tell you later
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Firstly, I am a devoted Christian, which means that I strive to live my life in a manner that reflects His love of me and my commitment to Him. I have never been married, with no children. I am a professional lady, and I work harder than I need to, but I thoroughly enjoy my career. Physically, I am just under 6 feet tall and my height definitely works for me. I have a caramel-complexion and my hair is natural. I am thick, curvy, and attractive. I work-out approximately five times a week, and I take my figure very seriously. I have a witty sense of humor and I absolutely love to laugh. I have a big heart and I am a nurturer by nature. I know, very well, how to treat a man and I am one of those rare women that genuinely believes that the man should be the leader, and that his woman should not thwart his manhood or his dominance.

Activities I enjoy include live theater, museums, art galleries, and the symphony, as well as movies, bowling, swimming, concerts, working out, writing extensively, reading just about anything, long steamy baths, and traveling. I also thoroughly enjoy mentally stimulating conversations. I love adventure, as I have been bungee jumping, sky coasting and want to go skydiving soon.

If you are looking for casual sex or a fling, then I am not the right one for you. I am looking for the right person for a long-term relationship. Please be forewarned that I have been told that my standards are too high, but I am not willing to settle.

For example, we likely will not get along if:
*you cannot speak or write proper English (too much to decipher)
*your primarily mode of communication is texting (we are adults)
*you have more than 3 kids, but never been married (TOO much drama)
*you drive in residential areas with music blasting (not at all cute)
*you don’t have a car, a job or your own place (TOO much drama)
*you do not take care of your body (hygiene, exercise, drugs, alcohol, excessive fatty foods, sexual promiscuity)
*you often become angry, have a bad attitude or a chip on your shoulder (TOO much drama)
*you tell lies (TOO much drama)
*you cannot carry a stimulating conversation (you must stimulate my mind before you can stimulate my body)
*you don’t know how to have fun (I don’t need any foreign substances to have a great time)

We will likely get along great if:
*you have integrity (if you don’t know what integrity really is, then you likely do not have it)
*you have your own relationship with a higher power (and your faith is strong and makes you a better person)
*you can be truthful at all times (even when you don’t want to be)
*you understand the importance of communication in a relationship (intimacy and connection depend on how well you communicate)
*you are intelligent (Intellect is a MAJOR turn-on for me)
*you enjoy laughing (uptight is kinda boring)
*you recognize the need to be a quality person (and you recognize a quality woman)
*you smell good (my hands will be all over you)
*you have a high sex drive in a relationship (I better not comment on this one)
*you don’t play games, play the field or play with people’s emotions (because I can't play with you)

Sorry for the laundry list. :( And I am sorry if it is too blunt. But, after some horrible dates, I decided that putting this out there will likely save a lot of undue headache. Besides, the right man for me must be able to handle both the intensity of my intellect and the playfulness of my personality. If you concur and feel we might get along (based on the above), then I would love to hear from you. :)

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
Hofstra University, Hempstead, NY
For fun:

I am always writing something. It's a pleasant hobby of mine. I love to read, anything from novels, to articles, and magazines. I enjoy singing. I'm a bit of a movie buff, mostly suspense and dramas. I also like to swim and to bowl.

Favorite hot spots:

I haven't traveled as much as I'd like to. Of the traveling that I have done, I enjoyed visiting Chicago and Jamaica the most.

Places that I would like to go include Rio de Janeiro, Africa and Paris.

Favorite things:

Anything purple! :) Ice cold water. Saturdays, because I can sleep late. Pretty shoes that are very comfortable. Great conversation. Movies with an unexpected twist at the end. Singing. Being loved.

Last read:

The last thing that I read was an academic article in the area of psychology. For my own personal pleasure, the last thing that I read was a spiritual book by Tommy Tenney called "God Chasers".

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
I'll tell you later
About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

Licensed clinical psychologist

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference

I am an African-American (Black) female. My family has southern roots (Virginia and North Carolina), but that was prior to my birth.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other

I am a dedicated Christian.

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
No preference

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