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41 year old woman
Hopkins, Minnesota, United States

Seeking:
men 30-48
Within:
50 Miles of Hopkins, Minnesota, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

*** Done with Match on 3/13/13. On POF."

"Never love anybody who treats you like you're ordinary."~ Oscar Wilde

I'm the tom-boy who loves dresses and 4" heels. The answer is yes, I can run in them. LOL! I love to watch sports on TV but would rather watch them live. In my personal life, I love to play and have fun and I'm not necessarily concerned with winning everything. I'm all about enjoying the moments. :-) There's so much out there that I have yet to try, adventures I haven't had, simply because time or opportunity hasn't presented itself to do so. I'd love to meet someone with an excitement for a variety of hobbies and interests who's willing to introduce them to me as well.

I'm an easy going person but I expect people to always try to do and be their best in every situation. I'm direct and honest ALWAYS, whether it be the "day to day" or the serious issues. It's simply how I'm built. I'm not rude or disrespectful by any means, but if you are looking for someone to blow smoke, I'm not she. You must say what you mean and mean what you say. I'd much rather you state what's on your mind, ask questions, and communicate. I'm a big girl- I can handle just about anything and still remain classy. :-) I try to keep my world drama free. Who needs that, right?? Mutual respect is a big deal to me, as well as accountability, honesty, loyalty and trust. All of these traits should go without saying, but I need to stress the importance of them anyway as they are deal breakers for me. Bottom line, I'm a great woman looking for a great man. :-)

I possess a quiet confidence and I prefer my man to as well. I truly strive to be a better me today than I was yesterday, I know my worth, and I'm a tremendous friend and partner to those important in my world. I'm patient, nurturing, kind, and caring, but I'm also very observant. I'm completely done with one-sided relationships of all kinds. "Show a girl you don't care and she'll chase you, but show a woman you don't care and she'll replace you."

Okay, for the superficial stuff--- You actually need to look like the photos you post. Please keep them current. We all look different, slimmer, better in our youth. I'm not trying to date the younger you. :-) I prefer a man who takes care of himself, takes pride in his appearance, and who is at least somewhat current in the way he dresses. Hopefully this same man owns an iron and knows how to use it. ;-p I'm SUCH a sucker for dimples in the chin or cheeks and I'm a huge fan of a well-groomed beard or goatee. What can I say, I like the scruff and a bit of the rugged look. :-)

I love to laugh and be silly... A LOT, but I have a serious and passionate side that runs deep. I'm often sarcastic but with only the intent to make you laugh or smile, never as a put down. I'm ready to get to know someone who is free and fun, but who also possesses maturity. It's a balance that is achievable and necessary in my eyes. I can be a very affectionate person. If I'm with someone I care about, I like to be close. It's that simple. I'd welcome the same. :-)

I'm a very happy person. I may not be happy every minute of every day, but I'm happy every day. I'm told that I'm always smiling. I don't even realize it. So, word to the wise, if I don't see you smiling in any of your pics, I'm going to assume you don't. You haven't any pics to share??? NEXT. LOL

I'm newer to online dating. I'm not out to be a perpetual dater so if that's what you seek, we are definitely not a match. I need someone who is emotionally healthy and truly ready to share their life, time, heart and mind with someone- maybe ME. Haha. It takes compromise and work but I'm up for the task and the fun that goes along with it. Are you? I've been dating and VERY happily single for 5 years but I miss having that special someone. I miss the feeling of being in love. For those who have been there, you know how great it is. So.... I'm looking to find my man. (smile) We'll see...

Interests:
I'll tell you later
Sports & exercise:
I'll tell you later
Exercise habits:
I'll tell you later
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I really try to make the most out of every situation and I'm not afraid to try new things. I can appreciate most genres of music, I like concerts, live music, theater, cooking, I LOVE TO EAT, comedy shows.

Favorite hot spots:

I like to go out with friends on occasion but I also can be quite the homebody at times. I'm very comfortable cooking at home with my honey and cuddling up on the couch with a movie (Sci-Fi, Action, Comedy, Drama- I like them all.)

Favorite things:

Anything that involves laughter & people who like to have fun. :-) I have as much fun in a room full of people I've just met as I do with my lifelong friends & family. I really enjoy getting to know new people & I can get along with almost everyone.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'10" (177cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
I'll tell you later
No preference

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