I am an optimist, eternally. I find what is good in any situation. This doesn't make me unrealistic, just an optimist grounded in reality. Life's challenges are easier to face this way.
I have a lot to share with everyone I meet. One of my best friends added to my profile because she is a wonderful friend.
Per Kim:
"I work for an awesome software/technology company that sponsors our company volleyball team, I ride my bike during lunch break, and I do yoga on Saturdays with friends. I am NOT a fitness buff, but I do love being active. I do NOT have a six pack. I LOVE children. I have GREAT friends and family that love me deeply. I am clever, intelligent, smart, funny, beautiful, kind, health-conscious, adventurous but not dangerous, nurturing but not enabling, been looking for the "right" guy for years but I'm not one of those "lucky" girls that meets those "good" guys that everyone talks about but never dates."
So that is what Kim says. She is not far from the truth. I may not be a fitness buff, but more and more lately I feel like I want to be. I love the adrenaline and endorphins that come with working out and being active.
I am a giving person. I've worked very hard in my life to not overdo it, and to remember to take care of myself. I'm looking for a relationship with someone where we can honor our independence, while at the same time take care of each other. Roots and wings is what it is all about, I want to be and have both.
Also, I'm not so sure that this works. So far, not so much. I am an optimist though, so I guess we shall see.
