I am a person who is very busy! I have children that I take care of emotionally, physically, and financially on my own. So they are my number one priority. They are involved in alot of activites and I dont like to miss a thing. I need someone who either has a family of their own or who can appreciate the duty that I have to mine. I work long hours only three days a week and my patients and coworkers are the other part of my family. I love my job and am thankful that it affords me a life for my children. For that I am truly blessed. I want someone who is REAL! Cmon we arent 20 anymore. I am looking for the age range of 35 to 45 so we should all be financially, emotionally, and physically independent by now. We should know pretty much who we are and what we are looking for by now. They need to be a man not a child. Someone else said it best about being "clingy, needy, jealous , or controlling". I have children that most of them are getting up there in age and I refuse to babysit a man. I dont have time for any of these attributes. I have a huge heart and am wiling to do anything for someone who is unable to do for themselves. I will find charity work in all sorts of insane circumstances.Tthats how I ended up with a 13 month old that needed a home that I took in she is now almost three.But for this I WANT a man who complements me I dont NEED a man or a father for my children. Another thing that someone brought up about,) they are not one to have a one night stand.Yeah about that if that is what you are hoping for....... keep hoping Im sure that I walk by many that do. I believe that women should maintain themselves (not that when Im at home cleaning my house or exercising at home I dont look a hot mess) but I take care of myself and respect my body and that will never happen. I am looking for someone that is thoughful, honest, compassionate, driven, self sufficient, and passionate. I will only be able to see you for limited amounts especially at at the beginning and I want to make it meaningful and keep you missing me till the next time we meet if we have that chemistry. I will help with the planning, I am thoughtful and have great ideas too, so the burden will not only be left on you. And no worries if u have had a rough day I'm sure in reality if I take a second to sit down and think about it I will be slam wore out too and appreciate a night in with takeout and a movie. Thoughtfullness is the importance in the planning not money. I want to travel and see the world and everyone and everything in it. So eventually if it works, Lets Go!