I have a lot of energy so I want someone who can keep up with me. This doesn't mean we always have to be on the go, but that the possiblity is there. I want someone who wants me to be their # 1, and vice versa. I am a loyal giving person and I want someone who can take the time to appreciate that and return the favor sometimes. I do not like dishonesty. I want to be able to trust you with my life because you can/will be able to do the same with me. I enjoy quiet time with my partner and it really is in the little things that shows people that they are worth it. I want someone who will take me out dancing Saturday night and then stay in bed watching movies on Sunday. I need someone who can and will communicate with me. True, its not always fun but it's a definite must in a healthy relationship. I am looking for marriage; that special someone to share all my hopes, dreams, fears, and hurts with. Life is too short and I feel that we must live it to the best of our abilities. Laughter goes a long way to heal wounds and I love to laugh. A sense of humor is a definite must. I probably laugh at myself on a daily basis because I'm hilarious. As soon as I was tall enough, I was riding rollercoasters. I'm a bit of an adrenaline junkie and I think it would be fun to bungee jump and do other sorts of adventures. I like to travel and there are many places that I want to go to and things I want to see. I am very close to my family and I want someone who wants to be a part of that closeness. I have a son and he is most awesome thing in this whole universe. I want someone who can accept him into their heart and never let go. Essentially, my perfect match would be someone who can make me laugh, someone I can trust , and who can and will live life with me and make it better than it already was.
II'm not sure what the key is to finding that special someone; I wish I knew. If I did I would definitely impart ALL of my knowledge to help others find "the one". Unfortunately, I don't, so I must persevere and hope that we find each other. Are you the one?
UPDATE...7-15-12
I've been on Match for a little while now and I've come to realize that there are a few more qualities that I am looking for and that are a must.
I would like to have more children. It may not happen, but I'm not ready to give up that dream yet. If you can't or don't want more children, then we're probably not a match. I have a strong faith in God. I try to go to church every week and am an active participant in my local church. I would like someone to share that part of my life. If you don't believe in God or cannot see yourself ever going to church with me, then we're probably not a match.
I like to be busy and with a child, I normally am but I am able and will make time to meet someone if the opportunity arises. I don't see the purpose in emailing/texting each other forever though without ever meeting. If after a few emails/texts we still are interested in meeting each.. then lets do so and see if we connect that way. I don't want to waste your time and please, don't waste mine if you want a pen pal.
At this time, I am a member of Match but I know a lot of people aren't. I believe that if you really want to meet me, you can find me. Emailing is the easiest and I am on the "y". If you've read this far and still might have a smidgen of interest, email me and we'll go from there.
If I'm not the one for you, well good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for.
Thanks & Happy Hunting.
