i don't really look for much. i am just looking for friends. you know and go from there you have to love and enjoy kids. you have to be stable and be good to kids. i have 2 boys 5 and 12. and you have to be sweet caring and loving. and some one that's not a player or a flirt. and some one whose not going to cheat. iam not in to any of that stuff. and i don't care if you have kids i love kids. i no this is asking a lot but its what iam looking for. and like to go out places i am all ways busy doing something. i don't like smoke and i don't smoke. no smokers