My life has had it's ups and downs. I am not proud of everything I have done, but I am proud of who I am and where I am today. I have two amazing children, 11 and 8. I have been told I am good at what I do. I am going to be crazy busy this summer, but I am looking for someone to spend some adult time with and see where things go. I have some hurdles that come with me, other than my children there is my mom who lives with me, my family which can be scarey to those who don't know us. I love to go to the Swampbats games, I love relaxing and enjoying the outside. I am looking for someone who will "Take me as I am" with all my baggage and support me emotionally and physically, but know I am not looking for a "sugar daddy". I am not looking for someone who is looking for someone to support them entirely, I will support them emotionally and physically, but they need to be able to support themselves financially. I'm not looking for a "nut case" I have enough baggage of my own I don't want to be your counselor.
I love my family and we do ALOT of things together. We celebrate Christmas in March or April, we rule the third base line at the Swampbats games, we have family Cake days just to have a Cake day, we have spur of the moment bbq's or dinners, we have game nights, we make beach trips together. My mom is children central which means my house is children central. I thought when my kids started school full time I would have a house that would be empty when they were gone... but that has yet to happen, we have my neices and nephews around most days of the week. I am extremely grateful for my family and who ever I find must be able to participate in that and accept us for who we are... you can't change the family you have.
I don't have much option to go out much due to being a single parent. My oldest son sees his father every other weekend and some extended time for vacations, and my youngest son does not. So on top of being a single parent I do not have the benefit of having a day or two off every now and then. Don't get me wrong I love my kids and would keep them both with me 365 days a year if I needed to, I just like to give a warning.
I am very physical when given a chance, I enjoy sex (don't we all), cuddling, holding hands, kissing. However I am also one who longs for the deep connection of friends to be able to just sit and talk with.
I have been told I am slow to trust but quick to fall in love. Know that I am working on those things and with some persistance and understanding you will find the diamond.
So If I havne't scared you away completely send me a message... lets see what happens!