I'm an active, family minded girl who wants someone who doesn't have to "try"...just be real. I am a teacher and a coach and I love my job. I have two young boys who keep my life exciting and give me purpose. I want to spend time with someone who makes me laugh, likes going out but enjoys staying home too. Just someone REAL that will put me as a priority but won't smother me. I've been divorced for 4 years and have completely moved on and all of the drama, pain, anger is GONE..In other words, there is no drama there or feelings left. I know you have to put forth effort to make a relationship work but I don't want to feel like I have to try all of the time. I don't want a distance relationship because that makes it so much more difficult when there is already so much planning when kids are involved. I don't need to be wined and dined but I do like feeling special- as most girls do take note. I'm not high maintenance AT ALL but it does take me a long time to get ready becasue although my closet is full there is never anything ot wear :) when I finally get to do something special (as in, not going to the skate park with my kids). I think I need to find someone who has a kid or two for them to get where I am as a single parent but that may not be true. I'm on match.com because I can take time getting to know the basics about someone while I'm home with my kids and save the actually dates for someone who I know I have at least a few things in common with and can carry a conversation with.. OH and that makes me laugh.
Obviously there is so much more than a paragraph in me and who I'm looking for but then again some of you may already be saying that's too much information :)