My ideal match must love to laugh. She can confidently be strong and comfortably fragile with me. She can express herself, speak her mind and communicate her needs without sensitivities. And, she can listen with equal enthusiasm. There is a grace in the way she carries herself. Plus, a healthy amount of daring and rambunctiousness. She is the sexiest woman in any room and only cares that I know it. She can give openly and lovingly, and is happy to receive just as much if not more. She is the right amount of complicated without being challenging. She can be patient and tolerable but knows her limits (especially with me). She is half-full of life's experiences and is ready for more with me.
Am I asking too much?
I'm the man who confidently commands the room but is mature enough to know my place.
Patience and tolerance are two of my strengths. Naturally generous too. But, have been guilty of giving too much to the wrong people. I like to think I've learned from that (fingers crossed).
I will speak my mind and be openly decisive wihout being stubborn. I am equal parts communicator and listener. You will always know where I stand and will treat each word you speak with respect.
There are only a few things in life that give me more pleasure than making people laugh. Though my dry wit and sarcasm is not funny to everyone... I'll keep trying to get a laugh regardless. If my match and I were a comedy team, I would be the quick witted straight guy as opposed to the rambunctious better half.
I am athletic and will remain that way until the body completely gives out. Far from a guy who lives in a gym but I will get out there and break a sweat. Very competitive but will show lots of respect if someone is better than me that day. Big time sports fan. Love playing but also enjoy going to live events.
Other than the obvious nutritional needs, food is very important to me. I love to cook but also love going out for a great meal. To be with me, you have to appreciate the art of a great meal. Fancy or not.
Music is a huge part of my life. I surround myself with it all day. Have played drums in a number of garage bands and enjoy making noise on my guitars. No, not an aspiring musician. I fashion myself the closet creative type. I do love catching a live show in a small venue and will selectively go see a major act at a big venue.
My career is also a big part of my life. I work hard and love what I do. I'm the fortunate guy who has had some great jobs in my field. It's safe to say that I have achieved a lot in my career but want more. With that said, life balance is really important to me. I play hard just as much as I work hard. Without a doubt, I need to take more vacations and plan on it.
Speaking of, (cliche warning! But it's true...) I crave new experiences, adventure and travel. I'm the guy who says YES to things that will push my boundaries. And, I get excited about going to the airport knowing that I will land somewhere I've never been. Have been to many cities and countries but many more yet to come. My match will have her passport ready to be stamped, a lot.
Things my potential match should know: I am very affectionate without being smothering. There will be a lot of hand holding and kissing. Spooning will happen. And it needs to be said, sexual chemistry is a big deal for me. One of the top three most important things in a relationship. Hopefully you feel the same way. Anything shy of that is just a friendship.
Just some highlights about me. Reach out with a message.