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41 year old woman
Syracuse, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 37-55
Within:
45 Miles of Syracuse, New York, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

If you had asked me a few years ago what I would be doing in 5 year, online dating would not have been on my radar....I also swore I would never type "LOL" or make a smiley face out of punctuation marks....now I use them daily. Funny how life has away of putting you in your place! I consider myself pretty optimistic. I tend to see the glass of wine as half empty cuz I want it filled...hmm maybe that just makes me a lush..
So i had some chuckles scooping out the competition do we all sound the same?
1. We all "want to trying new things" but you and I know most who put that are talking about a new restaurant, wearing white after labor day or slapping on a SU orange button shuffling up to the hill.
2. Shocker!! We want a nice guys, we like to laugh and have fun!
3. Our photos I never knew there were so many windy days in Syracuse that my hair covered half my face and i wore huge sunglasses then decided it would be a perfect profile picture! I want you to know, I worked very hard on my photo. It is not easy to suck my gut in, hold my chin up and take a photo w one hand in a mirror!
4. Ummm do women/men not realize there are time stamps on some photos, so when you see a date of 2008 kind of makes me wonder if they doubled in size
5. I think I am the only person on match whose ideal vacation isn't a week in the wilderness! Everyone seems to love to hike and camp, don't get me wrong I love being outside and a great camp fire but at the end of the night I wanna shower, shave and not consider toilet paper a luxury!
6.For every fish lipped face selfie us women take of our self there is a man in the mirror of his bathroom taking one...i have never seem so many toilet seats left up :)

Mens profiles can be equally confusing
1. The work hard, play harder lol ....do you ever like to relax?
2. Under "Have Kids" you put "I will tell you later" That scares the crap out of me...are you one of the Duggers and have 19 kids and counting
3.You're 50....but are looking to date someone 25. I know, I know..... you don't act or look your age
4.love the reverse you're looking to date women 55 and older but you want to have kids. Hmmm.. May want to refresh biology...probably not going to happen! Hope I am not ruining Easter but there is no Bunny and that Chick doesn't have eggs.
5.The pictures of you and your ex not a good idea. Remember even if it is your sister, we are gonna assume the worst. This is online dating
6.the shirtless pictures of you laid out on your car. REALLY? Are you trying to show off your car or body
7.Profiles with no pictures aye aye aye the things that run thing our heads.

OK, so if you are not deleting shirtless photos of yourself and you actually made it thru this, hopefully, you will shoot an email...if not to me, take a risk and send one to someone. We are all on here for one reason...ok maybe not all of us :) but take a chance--- you never know! Emails and txts are great but after a week or 2 the whole "catfish" scenario starts running thru our heads. Lets face it all comes down to chemistry.
I realize my profile may come across as cynical, but I promise I am not! I believe life is good and is only getting better!
Disclaimer****
I have been separated for over 4 years, technically not divorced but consider myself it. I just don't like putting separated because it sounds like I am on the rebound or may get back with my ex. I know when I see "separated" in a profile I worry. I have an amazing 11 year old son who is my life. I have a very good relationship with my ex and am not looking for a Dad for my son. Maybe at some point a friend to him who will buy him his first beer and lie to him about how you met his mother.

Interests:
I'll tell you later
Sports & exercise:
I'll tell you later
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs, Exotic Pets, Other
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

There are very few things I am not willing to try or do. I think I am a very lucky person to have the people I have in my life and realize that they are all there for a reason. I guess I am hoping to meet more people who I can be grateful for.

Favorite hot spots:

It was Wegmans...heard grocery stores were a great place to meet men, but I guess they have a crazy policy about running your grocery cart into men and asking them to touch your melons so they banned me:)

Last read:

Directions to saran wrap...j/k

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'8" (172cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

I love what I do, it gives me the freedom to be home with my son when I need or just want to be...It took me 20 years to find my passion and until now never understood how someone could love doing what they do...but i get it now.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I marked no for smoking, but maybe once a month if I am out I may...but I have met to many "occasional" smokers who are full time smokers ...I would have no issue not doing it.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

I am not a religious person but respect those who are. I believe in Karma & if you are a good person good things happen to you...and if your not it will come back and bite ya

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

The income question is so nosey... I understand it to some degree....But Who would ask that on a first date??? ( I make over $70,000)

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