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41 year old woman
Des Moines, Iowa, United States

Seeking:
men 35-48
Within:
Miles of
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Curvy
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I don’t fit any particular mold. My date shouldn’t either.

• I love to delve deep into life’s wonder and mystery; I also love to laugh at the ridiculous.
• I have a full and happy life on my own; having someone to share it with would be nice.
• I confront difficult issues; I don’t run away when the going gets tough.
• I commit to growing and changing my whole life; I don’t want things to ever stay the same.
• I have a comfortable home; I also love to explore new places.
• I love life’s contradictions; I don’t do “simple” or “average.”
• I am a Christian; but, I am NOT conservative or overly pious.
• I work hard to have a healthy spirit, mind and body; I’m not interested in sinking into dysfunction.
• I speak my mind; I’m happy to be challenged.
• I have high expectations; I don’t settle for less.

Are you the kind of person who doesn’t want to settle? Someone who wants something extraordinary? So am I. Send me a message.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Cycling, Football, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Very Liberal
Sign:
Leo
College:
Knox College, Galesburg, IL
For fun:

I'm always up for trying something new. I enjoy traveling to new places, going to movies, theater, museums. I am an avid yoga practitioner to keep a healthy mind, body and spirit. Cooking and gardening also keep me sane and grounded.

Favorite hot spots:

Chicago is the city of my heart. I lived there for 14 years until moving to Des Moines almost four years ago. I enjoy traveling just about anywhere; I can just as easily dress up for a night in a big city as I can pack up for a weekend camping trip.

Favorite things:

Things I can't live without: Yoga. In-season tomatoes. Massages. Travel. Old Friends. My iPad 3. God.

Last read:

Mighty Be Our Powers by Leymah Gbowee. Daring Greatly by Brene Brown.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'6" (167cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 6'9" (205cms)
Body type:
Curvy
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Grey, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist
Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design

I am an ordained clergy person in the United Church of Christ, but don't let that put you off. I still enjoy good wine and dancing, use swear words from time to time and am an all-around complex and imperfect person.

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Black / African descent, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

I'm a Caucasian Midwesterner, but I'm not narrow-minded. I'm open to people of a wide range of ethnic backgrounds.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious

I was raised Roman Catholic, but now am part of the United Church of Christ, a progressive Protestant denomination. Though I am a committed Christian, I can appreciate the thought and practice of many other faith backgrounds.

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a master's degree and plan to continue learning; yet, I'm not overly academic or intellectual.

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