With every step of this profile, I think, why in the world am I doing this? Then, I think of the article I saw where half of all relationships start from online sites these days, so, what the heck. I am an extremely proud mom of a 4 year old. I am hoping to find someone who doesn't think that there is a competition between him and my son. My son is just that, my son, and my man would be just that, my man! I don't have much of a social life at this point because until now, I have focused on getting kids and career. I am still focused on my kids and career, but there are other things in life! My friends think I should "get out more", but I am not sure what exactly the benefit would be to go hand out at a bar, etc. Your only hope to see me out is if you see me in the grocery store. I love to cook, watch football and just chill.