After a twenty year relationship and a year to reflect I am in the best shape; physically, mentally and spiritually of my life. I am a strong women with a big personality, a loud laugh, lots of opinions, a great job and wonderful friends. I am looking for someone who will accept me just as I am and be proud of me. I value honesty, decisiveness, a sense of humor and compassion. I would like to find someone who is good to his friends, likes his job, has a sense of adventure and enjoys his life.