February 14, 2013: I have decided to take a break from Match for a while. Since my membership is paid for a few more months, and I do not want to permanently delete my profile, I will continue to pop up in searches. But I will not be answering any winks, or e-mails until July 2013. Thank you.
I am looking for a highly spiritual, sensual, passionate playmate. A man who laughs easily and often, most of all at himself. Someone who loves the outdoors, and would join me hiking, snowboarding or just exploring a new place. A man who loves to travel, be it to a new restaurant, or a new country. Someone who is powerful and decisive in his life, as well as affectionate and generous in all of his relationships. A confident, charismatic and attractive man who has a strong, yet easy sense of style...
I'm also looking for a true friend who s l o w l y transforms into a passionate lover. I would like to experience intimacy and intensity in the moment, yet lightness and joyful adventure over all... I believe that desire can be greatly enhanced by letting it build up over time. By the time you touch my hand, I want to be electrified, by the time you kiss me, I want to think of nothing else. Physical attraction, sensual touch and the sacred expression of sexuality are very important to me, and in my opinion are the absolute underpinnings of a rich and fulfilling committed relationship. When there is such a sensual foundation, the smallest gesture, a playful look, or a slow kiss can transform any moment, no matter how separated or stressful it feels. But there has to be willingness to always say yes to the power of this alchemy, there has to be trust in the process and an agreement from both partners to use sensual expression to each other’s highest good, as well as a connection to Divinity. And then magical kingdoms await...
A little more about me:
I eat a healthy, mostly organic diet and staying fit is important to me.
I love witty, playful banter and have been known to deliver a well-placed zinger or two ;)
I really enjoy live music, music festivals and all that usually comes with them- funky art, ethnic food, people watching, occasional dancing, and hanging out on a blanket with family and friends... I am an introvert (need my time alone to recharge), with a well developed extroverted side. I avoid television (have no TV service at all) in favor of music, good movies, conversation and games. I believe we create our reality, either consciously or unconsciously, with each emotion, thought, word and action. Embodying this belief in my daily life has been a challenge, but I continue to witness myself, accept my shortcomings and change what I can.
I love to read uplifting, mind-opening books from many spiritual teachers and academic writers. I am very curious, about many things, from parenting, communication, healing, quantum-physics to post colonialism, critical pedagogy, nutrition and the politics of food. My personal interests are always shifting and evolving. I own hundreds of books, most of them read and loved at one time or another. It is crucial that my partner and I share a deep intellectual connection, in addition to the spiritual and physical ones.
I have a 4 1/2 yr old son, and he is my best teacher. I believe in parenting as a path of self-realization, especially for me. I also have an 18 yr old daughter who lives on her own. It is extremely important to me that anyone who enters our life, in whatever capacity, loves and is loved by my children.
I thank you for your time and wish you all the best on this dating journey :)