i am a single 39yr old, blk professional, independent woman,and single parent. i am 5'5 165lbs, brn hair and short brn hair. There are 3 things that are very important to me God, family, and career. i am looking for someone professional and who knows what they want in life and a relationship. so, if your into games please don't waste my time or yours. i am looking for that man who will take the time to know me and my desires about life. someone who will listen to me and know me enough that if i am having a bad day will understand. someone who will treat me like his queen and in return enjoys beening spoiled from time to time. someone who won't think because they say how he feels about me as a weakness but knows that if i know how he feels our relationship will be better. communication is important to me. someone who i can speak openly with about anything and will not take it wrong or use it against me. i have to speak about how i feel about everything and you should do the same i am a big girl. i can take the critisizm and use it for good. i am a very nice and outgoing person and i can't stand to be lied to. this will ruin any chance of us being friends.