I am hoping to attract a man that is confident but not cocky. A man that can fit in almost any crowd. Someone that is independent but wants to spend time with that special someone as well. I want a friendship first and if it leads to something great. I think friendship is where it needs to start. I would describe myself as pretty independent and outgoing. I like to keep busy. My children are extremely important to me! I like to exercise and stay active but it's not my life. I am pretty athletic, I enjoy golf and volleyball and once upon a time, played on a traveling fast pitch softball team.