I am looking for a friend first. I want a man who can be a spiritual leader, someone who takes the initiative to do things for his family. I want someone who we can encourage each other. Someone who can kick my butt in a loving way. I want a man who wants to be a good example to others, especially his or my kids. I want an adventurous man who can surprise me. I want a man who is loyal and trustworthy. I don't want to sit on the couch every weekend. I want someone I can open up to, cry and laugh with, knowing there is trust. I want a man who knows what he wants, someone who is NOT passive or a man who says "I don't know or I don't care" all the time. I know that Jesus Christ is my Lord and Savior and I want a man who feels the same.