I am 39, never been married and have no children. I was a nanny for ten years in New York City, in my younger years. I have ton's of life experiences and I consider myself a student of life. I like to meet someone who likes to have fun but also enjoys quiet times and knows when to behave and when to misbehave. I prefer mature men who have done some traveling. I would prefer someone who is clean inside and out, someone who respects women, and loves life. Someone positive. I love to have discussions with friends about the world and what it should be and could be and isn't. I find it educating and mind challenging.