~Confidence~ in a man trumps all else. And no, that doesn't mean a bad attitude is good. IT ISN'T. Wishy-washy just doesn't do it for me. I like a decisive man. Please have manners. Please no smokers or anyone with racial issues. Half of my non-blood related "family" is of color. I am really pale, it'd be really great if we didn't have that in common...I think contrast is sexy.
Oh, and MOST important, I have a 6 year old. If you don't like children (but OF COURSE mine is perfect), then keep looking.
***** Lying is the worst trait, always tell the truth even if it scares you. And if your picture ISN'T even you or is MORE than 10 years old, do not bother. I am not shallow, but no-one likes to feel deceived. *****