I am an independent woman that works every day to achieve my goals in life.I know what i want and i dont give up.I have 2 kids,one is grown and on her own,the other comes over every weekend.I want to find a man that has his life together that can support himself and not only depend on me.Ive been through too many relationships like that,i think a relationship should be 50/50.Everyone fights..its knowing how to communicate with each other that makes it all worth it in the end.I dont like to argue,i just want to be happy for once.I look for respect,loyalty,communication,trust in a relationship.I am a blunt person and i will say whats on my mind wether it hurts or not,take it how you want but thats me and if you cant handle me at my worst then you dont deserve me at my best..