My name is Chinese and means beautiful flower abounding in joy... And that is what I try to do in life. I am a hard working young woman who knows what I want in life and wont stop until i get it. I am very career driven but still know how to have fun. I moved to Topeka for my career... I own a restaurant here in town. I like a good challenge and going out on a whim and seeing where I end up. I am very adventerous and enjoy anything and everything outdoors. (Ok maybe not everything, I really hate bugs and spiders ;-))
I try not to dwell on negative things, for it only makes matters worse... Plus you never know who may be falling in love with your smile... I have a HUGE heart and an even bigger smile. Those close to me would say I am a kind-hearted, caring person with a big personality. I set out to please people and keep them laughing, even if it means I have to be the bunt of the jokes.
My family and friends and my 3 dogs are extremely important to me. I would do anything for them! I am willing to try just about anything once. I love adventure and the outdoors but at the same time love being a home bodied from time to time.
I am looking for a guy that can keep up with me. Someone who has a great sense of humor and can handle my jokes and spit them back at me. I want to meet people who are independent and are career driven as well and who are not afraid of a hard working woman who supports herself. I am here to find Mr. Right. I want someone who can love me for me and show the respect that woman deserves. I can't stand that "Hey shorty, can I get yo number" crap. One, I'm 5'10 so dont call me shorty and two have a little more respect for me as a black female and maybe we can talk. I want to be with someone who communicates well, has moral beliefs and can be honest with me, even if it may hurt me. I am a Christian and follow my faith. It is a part of me and I won't let it go.
I am big on being healthy and living a good life. I recently started running 5k events. I am currently training to run the Tough Mudder. Having a training buddy would be great :) I want to constantly surround myself by positive people. I hate those that are constantly being "Debbie Downers" I have to put up with enough of those at work. Powerful and Positivity!!!
Anything else you want to know.. Just ask! :)